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Cheyenne Whitaker
Born in United States
25 years
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Cheyenne's Mom Grief After Many Years Without You....... March 18, 2018
Eleven years since your passing. We were the best of friends. You are always the Love of my Life. Even still; now and forever.....I can't stand VT anymore. I have had enough! Shay has been thru Hell and back during her first Saturn Return. Oh man, you didn't make it til your first Saturn return. I didn't realize that til now. Oh well, you were called to go on to another Lift Line ( I mean LifeTime)..you know I can't resist a joke!I have been writing a lot these past two years, and it is good for me. I have become more political than ever. I still remember us campaigning for Mondale/Ferraro when you were almost 3. You were so sweet in your Oshkosh clothes. You were such a lover of Life itself! A joyous person who everyone loved. 
I miss you to the Moon and Back....everyday.I wonder what you are doing up there. I wonder if you met Teresa again. She crossed over a couple of years ago.I had no idea. I miss her sweet spirit too. All my plans failed for moving to a warmer climate. I am so out of my element up here. Please watch over all 3 of us and Benji. My joy has pretty much left. I need to move to a place where I can swim and walk everyday with Benji, and make some new friends.I need to get my spark back, walk out onto a beach, and let my free spirit soar in the light again. Dakota is not the best communicator. He comes by about once a year from Cali. this year he bought me a car! It was on theWinter Solstice. It was just sympatico. She is a black Southern Volvo from Georgia, so I named her Peaches! A wagon, of course! I am still gathering wood, a tradition started when we took to the woods, dragging a sled behind us to carry all the kindling and 2x4's. I remember your first snowboard, your first sk8board,and your first surfboard. I guess I will look at the many photos I took of you throughout your life, and try to appreciate those times, or I may just drown in sorrow. This day is awful for me. Especially since you died a wrongful death. a preventable death. I just wish I could hold you now, and never lose you again.One of these days this will happen...I know you feel it too. Hearts Together Forever!
Mom Messages from you... March 19, 2017
Today is the sad 10th anniversary of your passing. Every year I have to fight to hold it together. I didn't do so well yesterday. Shay was teaching @ Quechee Ski Hill, and I was home with Benji. Anyway, I have been going downhill since you left. Its not what you would want for me. Shayna too.Too sad that you are not here to help us on the Path. All the beautiful sightings of messages in the sky are a joy for me. I am in awe of the beautiful Angel fish you sent me. It was perfect. I knew no one else saw it, and I knew it was from you,  just for me! also a bird's wing i saw last fall. I am always looking for messages from you and am delighted when I see them. Love you to the Moon and back. I know next time I see you, I will cry and then they will be tears of joy! I tried to call your Dad in Cayman. I did not reach him. I hope you are having a great time with Petra. I lit a candle for the two of you on Samhain, after watching some fire spinning.
 
lana germano friend to friend March 19, 2010

losing cheyenne created a cavernous void;  the space he filled in life left for family and friends to fill with mere flashes of image, memory and story.  it seems too hard a task at times - memories are so transitory, afterall - but memories are the only tools afforded family and friends to remember a wonderful life with love and joy.

 

and much love and joy to a wonderful family:  may your healing continue. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mom For Cheyenne March 18, 2010

hi Sweetie,

On this, the third anniversary of your passing, its hard to believe we haven't seen each other for so long. Some days are very sad and some days are bearable.

Certainly Life for me has changed for the worse. I now realize my repeating issue in Life is "Abandonment". I wish you were here to guide me thru this..what to do next; what direction to go in etc. I certainly thought we would build a house together. Now I have no one to do that with. Something we could do together as grown-ups, artists with a great design sense. Surely Petra would have been part of that! Raff wrote today to say he is thinking of you everyday, along with Russ and Alexis. I am glad I fought the good fight for you against that resort. I knew they were wrong and they knew it too. I am glad we did not back down. There is some closure knowing that I did everything I possibly could for you, barr nothing. Their bad karma will come back to them sometime. I hope they get it back in spades. I hate them, but won't get into that now. Going to venture out and see what I can find in this spring-like day to remind me of you.

I will look for a sign from you up in the clouds. I love you for always, my Cheyenne. I wonder if my heart will ever mend, or if it will remain forever broken. Such a deep sadness. Isle of View, Sweet Son. Love Always, Mom

lana germano friend to friend April 10, 2008

always with you

lynn, it is as though you and i have been friends forever even if it has only been for most of this lifetime.  there is so much we have shared, mostly good but some bad:  the most dreadful of which has been the loss of your wonderful son, cheyenne. 
during the anniversary of his passing, i pray that we will all be able to reflect on his life with joy and happiness - and to know with all our hearts that we were all so lucky to have had him with us for as long as we did.  his is truly a legacy to be remembered as the quality of the life lived, rather than the length of life experienced. 
although he has gone before us to lead the way home, a part of him remains with us living vividly in our mind's eye as blessed memories of a life lived on earth to the fullest.  god bless.  
friends always, lana
yvette my thoughts and prayers March 25, 2008

Lynn,

 

It was truly an honor to have met your beautiful son.....He was a gift.

 

I know your pain, I know how deeplu missed your angel is....

 

nothing makes sense in this life.

 

Somedays the only thing that I can hold onto to is knowing that I , like you will have an angel waiting to take my hand when I cross over...

 

You did an amazing job to have raised such a terrific son...

 

sending you all the love and healing thoughts I have.

 

your sister in in grief,

 

love,yvette

Lucy Carter mom to angel Laura Hunter March 20, 2008

Lynn,

My heart goes out to you. I know your pain. You just went through the first

angelversary. I know that must have been hard. I just went through Laura's b'day. The first w/o her. In July I will have to go through the 1 year anniversary of her death. What we go through is just not fair. A parent should never have to bury their child. If you need to talk you can e-mail me. cece747@hotmail.com God bless you.

Lucy

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